And what it a lunch it was! Among the eaters were Ruth (Reichl), April (Bloomfield), Katy (Sparks). The chefs who were cooking were Arianne Daguin (D’Artagnan),Gabrielle Hamilton (Prune), Barbara Lynch(Menton) and Helene Darroze, the famed two Michelin starred chef of Paris. Here it was sweltering July and we all turned out to eat foie gras, quail, roast pork and drink wines of the South of France and Armagnac. Only maddogs and foodies down that kind of lunch in the noon day sun.
We were celebrating the women chefs and the talk at our table turned to the question of the place of women today in the professional kitchen. Women have made immense inroads in the last 20 years, that’s for sure. Back in the eighties it was impossible for women to be hired in the top kitchens. Not because of any regulation but a prejudice that women weren’t up to the job. That attitude has changed in spades. Who is the most famous chef in America? Probably Alice Waters? One of the best known food producers? Ariane Daguin. And we were celebrating the Michelin two star doyenne from Paris, Helene Darroze. Twenty five years ago this would never be.

Arianne Daguin's foie gras, three ways
So are women now on equal footing with men in the kitchen? Not so fast. The barriers to entry are certainly trodden down but the sustaining factors to becoming a great chef are still a challenge for women. It is no secret that balancing a home life and the life of a chef, restaurateur, sommelier or anyone in the hospitality business is a challenge. This is the profession that works while others celebrate…New Year’s Eve, Christmas, Thanksgiving, Mother’s Day. The work day is actually better described as the work evening. There are positions that are day friendly but for the most part work is for the dinner shift and weekends. A woman with a biological clock does not have to drop out but needs to be crafty in fitting family and profession. Even male chefs have to juggle this one.
Another issue is financing a place of your own. Women entrepreneurs often are confronted with more skepticism. It is hard for any chef trying to find funders, but anecdotally I have heard more war stories from women than men.
All the more reason to celebrate Helene Darroze’s visit to New York, Gabrielle Hamilton winning the James Beard award for best New York Chef and Barabara Lynch for taking Boston by storm. Let’s hope all the women who have found success are as generous as these role models to mentor the next generation.